That is a question that I am sure everybody would answer with "I want it." Well, I am here to tell you financial freedom is achievable. Yes, it sure is but the problem is you have to have the desire to go and get it. Most people fail to achieve there dreams and goals because the DESIRE is not there. To achieve success in anything you want in life takes desire. The desire is what made Michael Jordon, Bill Gates, Bill Walton and even me successful.
Desire is one of the main keys to your success. You and you alone must decide that you have the desire to go on until you get to your goal. Desire is the thing that must people fail at. You need to search into your soul and your heart and make a true commitment that nothing is going to stop you to achieve your goal. I don't know what your dreams and goals are but most people do want financial freedom. Maybe you want to be a pro ball player, a doctor, or a lawyer what ever it might be you need to put it into your heart and just do it.
Believe me I know how hard that is. It was not easy for me but the one thing that I had was the desire to succeed. Success is a learned skill. I remember when I wanted to be a high fashion model. My friends and even my family did not support me. So, I packed up and moved to New York City. The capital of modeling.
I went to every top agency in New York and every one of them tuned me down. They all said go out get there and get some work and when you do come back. I then went to the small agencies and 2 of them took me on. The only problem with small agencies is they don't have the contacts that the big ones have. So, I made my own appointments.
My goal was 25 appointments a week. It took me 11 1/2 months to get my first job. That meant that I receive over 1,000 no's before I got my first YES. The rest is history. I modeled all over the world for 10 years, made a ton of money. After modeling I became a scout for the major agencies in New York, Europe and Japan. Plus I wrote a book on modeling. Just a plan old guy from Cape Cod.
So, What I am telling everyone. If you want something find the desire that is inside of you and don't let anything or anyone stop you. God has given us all gifts and talents. Find that gift that is inside of you and just do it. Stop blaming other people for your failure. Yes, that is just what I said. Being a success coach I hear so much blame put on other people. I don't blame anyone for my failures not matter what. The reason why is because I was the one that made the decision to do what every. No one to blame but ME.
When ever I start coaching people I let them do 98% of the talking. I want to get to know them and build a relationship. What I hear is the blame. I blame my parents, my boss, my wife, my kids, my friends. I am to fat, to skinny, to ugly. People just don't like me. I did not do well in school. My teachers didn't like me, my coach didn't like me and more.
All that is just negative self talk. My advice to all the above is to change. Change the people you are around and change the way you talk to your self. When I decided to become a model I packed up and moved away from all those negative people. I knew what I wanted and deep inside I know that I would get it.
I feel the same way now about my network marketing business. I know that network marketing works and I will not give up. Network marketing is a proven business and it works for millions of people. I have always been positive and when people around me talk negative I just leave and I mean leave. If you hang around 4 negative people you will be the 5th. If you hang around 4 broke people you will be the 5th.
Don't forget the number one secret to success is desire. Do you have the desire to succeed? That is the only question you need to ask yourself. If so then find the other keys to success. They are all around you.
Jake Pena is a Network Marketing coach helping others get their business started or to get better results in their Relationship Marketing company. Jake does this through the Renegade University to show network marketers how to build a relationship and earn money while working from home. If you are building your business through Social Networking then let the Jake Pena show you how. Go to [http://www.Join2Win.info]
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