You Want A Great Body - But How Bad Do You Want It?

There are people who suggest that "desire" is evil and that desire is responsible for all our troubles, strife and unhappiness in life. That is mistaken. That would be confusing desire with greed and excess. The truth is, nothing would ever happen if it weren't for desire. Without desire, you would never get the car you want, you would never get the home you want, you would never get the companionship you want and you would never get the body you want.

Desire is unexpressed talent, unfulfilled potential or an underperformed function calling out, and seeking expression or improvement. It's that higher voice within you saying, "Hey, you're more than this, you're better than this, and you deserve it, so get moving, and go get it!"

Desire is a positive and powerful force for change and as Napoleon Hill said, "Desire is the starting point of all achievement."

I would add to Napoleon Hill's sentiment by saying that desire is also the finishing point of all achievement.

Some people talk about the body they would like to have, but it's only a wishy washy desire with no OOMPF behind it. If your desire is not strong enough - if it is not a burning desire - you'll never finish - you'll quit at the first obstacle or difficulty.

People with a burning desire do not quit. They are unstoppable.

Just look at New Year's resolutions. Three months into the new year, how's your new year's resolution coming along?

In January, if you set a real fitness transformation goal, in writing, backed with burning desire and strong emotional reasons why you wanted that goal, then I know that your body has completely transformed in the past three months.

If you didn't set goals at all, if you set a wimpy "resolution," if you didn't come up with any good reasons why you must change, or if you lacked desire, then I know that your body looks more or less the same as it did three months ago.

What does the rest of this year have in store for you? I can tell you without hesitation that your future success will come in direct proportion to your level of desire and I've seen the proof time after time.

Recently, I received an email from Mike Ogorek, who posted his astonishing before and after fat loss success story on his web page (the link is below)

On his page, which describes and photographically illustrates his incredibly inspirational weight loss of 137 pounds, Mike wrote a lot of things which show just how intelligent he is with his approach to fat loss and staying motivated.

One thing, however, jumped right off the page when I read it. Mike wrote,

"Ladies and gentlemen, this is what it all boils down to: How bad do you want it?"

Mike had a burning desire - and he burned off 137 pounds of fat!

You can burn the fat too, but you gotta want it...

You gotta decide what you want, then stand up and shout, "THIS IS WHAT I WANT and I AM GOING TO GET IT!

A better body does not come in a pill or a bottle. Fat loss success does not even depend solely on the particular training program you are using. There are many different approaches to nutrition and exercise that can work, and different things work for different people.

But the one thing that MUST always be there is a goal and the burning desire to achieve it.

When you don't have it, no diet or workout will help. When you do have it, nothing can stop you from getting the body you want

Take a look at Mike Ogorek's transformation story here and see what BURNING DESIRE and an intelligent plan can do for YOU:

http://www.mikeogorek.com

Train hard and expect success.

Tom Venuto is a natural bodybuilder, certified strength and conditioning specialist (CSCS), certified personal trainer (CPT) and a certified master practitioner of NLP. Tom is the author of the e-book, "Burn the Fat, Feed The Muscle,? which teaches you how to get lean without drugs or supplements using methods of the world's best bodybuilders and fitness models. Learn how to get rid of stubborn fat and increase your metabolism by visiting: http://www.burnthefat.com.

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How Bad Do You Want Financial Freedom and Success in Your Life?

That is a question that I am sure everybody would answer with "I want it." Well, I am here to tell you financial freedom is achievable. Yes, it sure is but the problem is you have to have the desire to go and get it. Most people fail to achieve there dreams and goals because the DESIRE is not there. To achieve success in anything you want in life takes desire. The desire is what made Michael Jordon, Bill Gates, Bill Walton and even me successful.

Desire is one of the main keys to your success. You and you alone must decide that you have the desire to go on until you get to your goal. Desire is the thing that must people fail at. You need to search into your soul and your heart and make a true commitment that nothing is going to stop you to achieve your goal. I don't know what your dreams and goals are but most people do want financial freedom. Maybe you want to be a pro ball player, a doctor, or a lawyer what ever it might be you need to put it into your heart and just do it.

Believe me I know how hard that is. It was not easy for me but the one thing that I had was the desire to succeed. Success is a learned skill. I remember when I wanted to be a high fashion model. My friends and even my family did not support me. So, I packed up and moved to New York City. The capital of modeling.

I went to every top agency in New York and every one of them tuned me down. They all said go out get there and get some work and when you do come back. I then went to the small agencies and 2 of them took me on. The only problem with small agencies is they don't have the contacts that the big ones have. So, I made my own appointments.

My goal was 25 appointments a week. It took me 11 1/2 months to get my first job. That meant that I receive over 1,000 no's before I got my first YES. The rest is history. I modeled all over the world for 10 years, made a ton of money. After modeling I became a scout for the major agencies in New York, Europe and Japan. Plus I wrote a book on modeling. Just a plan old guy from Cape Cod.

So, What I am telling everyone. If you want something find the desire that is inside of you and don't let anything or anyone stop you. God has given us all gifts and talents. Find that gift that is inside of you and just do it. Stop blaming other people for your failure. Yes, that is just what I said. Being a success coach I hear so much blame put on other people. I don't blame anyone for my failures not matter what. The reason why is because I was the one that made the decision to do what every. No one to blame but ME.

When ever I start coaching people I let them do 98% of the talking. I want to get to know them and build a relationship. What I hear is the blame. I blame my parents, my boss, my wife, my kids, my friends. I am to fat, to skinny, to ugly. People just don't like me. I did not do well in school. My teachers didn't like me, my coach didn't like me and more.

All that is just negative self talk. My advice to all the above is to change. Change the people you are around and change the way you talk to your self. When I decided to become a model I packed up and moved away from all those negative people. I knew what I wanted and deep inside I know that I would get it.

I feel the same way now about my network marketing business. I know that network marketing works and I will not give up. Network marketing is a proven business and it works for millions of people. I have always been positive and when people around me talk negative I just leave and I mean leave. If you hang around 4 negative people you will be the 5th.  If you hang around 4 broke people you will be the 5th.

Don't forget the number one secret to success is desire. Do you have the desire to succeed? That is the only question you need to ask yourself. If so then find the other keys to success. They are all around you.

Jake Pena is a Network Marketing coach helping others get their business started or to get better results in their Relationship Marketing company. Jake does this through the Renegade University to show network marketers how to build a relationship and earn money while working from home. If you are building your business through Social Networking then let the Jake Pena show you how. Go to [http://www.Join2Win.info]

How Bad Do You Want Change?

I get asked quite frequently, "How have you been able to create such success, and what is your secret." Each and every time, I give the same answer, "A Burning Desire." Notice I didn't say "Luke-Warm" desire. I never matters what type of goals people have, whether long term or short term. It's How bad do they want them. I see too often with associates of mine spending an amazing amount of time and energy setting forth their goals. They put them on their bathroom mirror, coffee pot, or their rear view mirror in their car.

All of this is done to remind them of what they are reaching for and working so hard to attain. I encourage this and recommend it highly for all my new business partners. But, the true desire for anyone to grab hold of any goal is to achieve Internally. Notes and reminders of goals are superficial. A burning desire is to "Internalize" those goals with every waking breath.

You have to want that goal like you want that next breath of fresh air. One can not make goals, and work towards them thinking to themselves, "Boy, I sure hope I am successful." It doesn't work that way. We need to hard wire ourselves internally, to prove to ourselves that we actually need that goal like we need the next breath of fresh air.

A funny thing happens to us when we actually convince ourselves that we Need our goals to survive and not simply Hope that we get them. This is where what I like to call, HR comes in. Some know that as our Human Resources. I like to think of it as our Habitual Repetition. This is what I will cover more of in my next article.

My name is Scott Coletti, a physician, author, and internet entrepreneur. I am married with four beautiful and healthy children and reside in Belleair, Florida. http://www.scottcoletti.com

Wealthy Retirement - How Bad Do You Want to Achieve That

Surely, all of us want to someday enjoy a wealthy retirement. Although the thought of retirement may give you images of being able to chill out, relax, and sleep without calls and emails, it may not be as easy if you do not have the financial capacity to back you up. This is why really planning for your retirement is always an essential thing to consider.

These days, more and more people are finding themselves looking for ways wherein they can better prepare for retirement. Some companies easily make this available as a benefit to their employees. They can help automate the process of saving by collecting from the employees' salaries and then give it to them as retirement period kicks in.

Although there certainly are various available programs being offered in planning for retirement, you should not just blindly join or sign up with any of these programs without first studying very eagerly the details and process involved within any particular program.

However, simply saving money or joining a retirement plan program will not be enough to reach your goal of someday enjoying a wealthy retirement. The true secret in retiring wealthy is having more than enough money to sustain your day to day needs. Meaning, you have more than enough resources for yourself that you even have extra resources to share with others and possibly be of big help to their needs as well, most particularly in the financial aspect.

So then, what better options are there available in planning for a wealthy retirement aside from saving and joining retirement programs?

The best solution so far in planning to retire wealthy is to be able to establish your own business. Having a stable business gives you so much potential in increasing your financial resources not only during that time while waiting for your retirement age to arrive, but also during your retirement period itself. Remember if you are allotting just a fraction of your time with your business now then just imagine how much profit will you be making when you allot your full time in managing your business come your retirement period.

Another great solution in achieving a truly wealthy retirement is by placing your money on highly valuable investments. One good advice is investing on real estate properties. Real estates are considered to be extremely good investments for the reason that real estates' value appreciates continuously overtime. And there are various other options on how to wisely create and manage investments. You just have to do a careful study before coming up with a final decision.

The challenge of achieving a truly wealthy retirement

There is only one thing you need to consider when planning to someday enjoy a wealthy retirement - and that is the fact that it is no ordinary goal to successfully accomplish. However, if you have that strong desire and faith coupled with strong persistence in putting your plans into action then really, you have everything that you need already.

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How Bad Do You Want To Quit Smoking? - These Thoughts May Help You Decide

Quitting smoking is in the minds of most smokers, though it is a task easier said than done. Dangers of smoking are well-known and can have serious harmful effects on the quality of your life besides diseases it can bring. Your decision to quit smoking is one of the best things you can do for yourself and your family. The bad thing about cigarettes is that they may bring disease and death to you at an early age. Bad diseases and death associated with smoking can be prevented if a smoker can quit, now, before it's too late.

Nicotine

Nicotine is a drug found naturally in tobacco that goes to the brain and creates a short term feeling of pleasure. Nicotine can be found in breast milk and even in cervix mucus secretions of smokers. When quitting smoking, nicotine replacement can help reduce many of the physical symptoms of withdrawals. Nicotine is considered one of the most additive substances on the Earth and it takes time to rid the body of its presence and effects. The top three deadliest poisons are, 1 Arsenic, 2 Strychnine, 3 Nicotine.

Reason to stop smoking

Health concerns usually top the list of reasons people give for quitting smoking. Nearly everyone knows that smoking can cause lung cancer, but few people realize it is also a risk factor for many other kinds of cancer which includes cancer of the mouth, voice box (larynx),throat (pharynx), esophagus, bladder, kidney, pancreas, cervix, stomach, and some leukemia's just to name a few. Smoking also causes premature wrinkling of the skin, bad smelling clothes and hair, yellow fingernails and bad breath from smoking.

Risks for Others

Risking one's own health is one thing but risking the health of their family and others is another. Secondhand smoke has been classified by the Environmental Protection Agency as a known cause of cancer (Group A carcinogen). Contact with secondhand smoke can cause disease and early deaths in adults and children who do not smoke. Secondhand smoke contains hundreds of chemicals known to be toxic or carcinogenic, including formaldehyde, benzene, vinyl chloride, arsenic ammonia and hydrogen cyanide. Secondhand smoke causes roughly 3,400 lung cancer deaths and 46,000 heart disease deaths in adult nonsmokers in the United States each year.

Help to quit

Your desire to quit smoking is very important in determining the success you will have in quitting. Being able to quit smoking is something that many smokers wish for. Information to help people quit smoking is also available through community hospitals, the yellow pages (under "drug abuse and addiction"), public libraries, health maintenance organizations, health fairs, bookstores, and community quit lines. Your decision to quit smoking is one of the best things you can do for yourself and your family. Quitting smoking is not easy, but you can do it. Quitting smoking is not easy, but you can do it.

Notes About The Author

Tim Wedin is new to article writing who has found an interest in writing informative and helpful articles. You can read other articles on smoking at, A Blog to Help You Quit Smoking.... [http://smokinghelpquit.blogspot.com]

How Badly Do You Want Success?

Is it bad enough to cut yourself some slack? Why? Because in order for you to get to where you want to go, you need to loosen up. Stick with me here and I will explain why.

I discovered, the hard way, by personal experience, that most people who want success, including myself, are too hard on themselves. Subsequently, when they screw up, they come down on themselves very hard. In fact, in most cases, too hard.

Nobody likes to be criticized or yelled at. Most people pull in their horns and go back to being their own little quiet selves. You know what I am talking about. "Gee, I am sorry. I didn't mean to make any nasty waves."

Can you imagine people at the top of their game coming off with that kind of statement? How about Ted Turner. Can you imagine him saying, " I'm sorry..."?

What makes us act and think this way? Specifically, the problem relates to our self-image, our comfort zone, and fear. Most of us, who want success, have these three forces of nature working against us.

Mr. Fear is always in the game. You can believe it. He knows his territory and his interests and he doesn't let anybody or anything get in his way. Ironically, Mr. Fear believes your best interests are his best interests.

Your self-image and your comfort zone are really the same thing. The image you have of yourself, your stand operation procedure, is the boundary you have unconsciously established for yourself as a "comfy" place to be. As long as you don't leave that self-imposed boundary, your comfort zone, everything is nice, warm and comfortable.

Trouble begins when you start pushing your comfort zone boundary or self-image. Then, your enforcer and and comfort zone protector,Mr. Fear, steps up to the plate and lets you know in no uncertain terms that you are asking for trouble, especially when you want success.

Mr. Fear does this by giving you lots of anxiety and nervousness. You may find the rationale behind all of this by reading Maxwell Maltz's book on Psycho-Cybernetics.

The point is, if you really want to fly and grow in your lifetime, you need to quit dwelling on your mistakes and imperfections. Cut yourself some slack. Learn to like yourself and forgive yourself.

Why is this important? The answer is very simple. If you are a grade C player now and you want to be a grade A player, then you must begin doing and thinking like a grade A player.
This means you are going to be living and working in unfamiliar territory. And, until you get familiar and comfortable with your new surroundings, you are going to be making mistakes. And yes, your old enemy, Mr. Fear is going to be close by whispering in your ear all of his cautionary tales of woe.

Now, this is where life gets interesting. Once Fear gets his claws into you, believe me, he will, you must keep your eye and emotions on your goal. Don't let the Sirens of Fear get you down and beat you. Unfortunately, there is no immunization for fear.

What you can do is realize what is happening to you. Understand why you experiencing anxiety, self-doubt and fear. Try to grab onto your inner resources of hope and inspiration. Don't be afraid to express your worries to friends that are of a similar trend of thought as yourself.

I personally, went through a new and stressful experience, similar to what I have mentioned. Specifically, I decided I should volunteer for my local community Emergency Squad. We answer rescue calls for people that are sick. We meet and greet them with an ambulance. We are First Responders. Yes, and I want success.

During my learning curve, I have been very uptight about learning all of the new things required of a First Responder. I even doubted by decision to do this volunteer stuff.

Well, I have hung in there, and now things are beginning to come together. Subsequently, I feel more relaxed in this new and challenging environment.

But, for a while, I was scared stiff that I was going to make mistakes and look like a fool. Remember, I want success.

I am learning to relax and cut myself some slack. Who knows, maybe someday I will be a world class First Responder!

Jack Marinchek is the publisher of the site, [http://standgreat.blogspot.com/], which features- inspirational information on life improvement.

How Bad Do You Want to Succeed

Do you want to succeed so bad that you will do anything for it?

Do you wake up every morning not wanting to go to work? Are tired of the boss telling you when you will have time off and how long your vacation will be? Or are you just tired of not having enough income coming in to pay the bills? Maybe you enjoy what you do but you just want something more! If this sounds like you than let's see if this will help you.

First you Need a want or a bunch of wants!

So what do you want? Really what do you want? Do you want to just get up in the morning and drink coffee and not have to rush off to work? How about spending lots of time with your family? Do you like to just wear flip flops all day long? Do you want to have a full message every week? How about a full time house cleaner/nanny/helper? Or new house, new car, how about you want to have money to totally support a charity? I think you get the drift.

Now it's action time!

Now after you write all of these items down look at them and make sure they are things that if you don't become successful in a business it's going to really make you cry. OK so now what? What will you do about it? Are you willing to learn something new like maybe a business on the side? Are you willing to turn off the TV for a few hours each week? Are you willing to work on your personal development?

Are you willing to do what you need to do?

Are you willing to partner up with someone who has already succeeded in business before you? Or will you go out and try to start your new business on your own? I want to see you succeed in business because I know if you start with the right information you have a better chance of success.

People who succeed in business will...

I want to see you succeed in business because I know if you start with the right information at hand you have a better chance of succeeding. I am a firm believer that people that succeed in business will reach out and help more people. Anyone can be successful if they believe they can and are willing to get the right help from the right people.

If you are ready than you seek out more information on what to do next. There is no better time than now to change your financial future then NOW.

To learn more on how Brian Cattano can help you succeed in business please be sure to visit his website at http://www.briancattano.com and make sure you join his Newsletter so he can help you succeed in today's market.

Brian Cattano is a successful entrepreneur in network marketing and online businesses. He is a coach, mentor and speaker.

God Has Humor

 

On the first day, God created the dog and said, sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. For this I will give you a life span of twenty years. The dog said, “That’s a long time to be barking. How

about only ten years and I’ll give you back the other ten?” And God said that it was good.
On the second day, God created the monkey and said, “Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh. For this, I’ll give you a twenty-year life span.”
The monkey said, “Monkey tricks for twenty years? That’s a pretty long time to perform. How about I give you back ten like the dog did?”
And God again said that it was good.
On the third day, God created the cow and said, “You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer’s family. For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years.”
The cow said, “That’s kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years. How about twenty and I’ll give back the other forty?”
And God agreed it was good.
On the fourth day, God created humans and said, “Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. For this, I’ll give you twenty years.”
But the human said, “Only twenty years? Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay?”
“Okay,” said God, “You asked for it.”
So that is why for our first twenty years, we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves. For the next forty years, we slave in the sun to support our family. For the next ten years, we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren. And for the last ten years, we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone.
Life has now been explained to you.
There is no need to thank me for this valuable information. I’m doing it as a public service. If you are looking for me I will be on the front porch.

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Seriously, How Bad Do You Want It?

Success won't come to you.

I know this question may sound a little strange, but do you want to have more success in your business life? How about in your career, or as a parent?

Would you like to dramatically improve you sporting performance? Reduce your golf handicap?

Now I know the answer to these questions will be undoubtedly YES!! We all want to be more successful!!

The real question is 'How bad do you want it?'

Do you want it bad enough to do something about it, or are you hoping you will get lucky and success will come to you? Well I am afraid I have some bad news.

Success doesn't know about luck. Success sits and waits for those willing to go out there and get it. And it doesn't matter how much you moan and complain about your naff golf swing, your lack of customers or you poorly paid job, it still won't come to you.

It takes a commitment and a decision. It means you ignoring your fears and calling someone for help, following through on you commitments and hunches.

I was watching Hells Kitchen last week with Gordon Ramsey, and right at the end Gordon Ramsey spoke to 'me' and he said,

"If you want to succeed in life you have to make a decision and do what it takes. Business and success doesn't just come. You have to go looking for it! If you don't, you re going to fail!"

The good news is that you have taken the steps already with these success articles, towards a more successful life. Some of you have taken a bigger step and had coaching sessions , and that's exciting to see you achieve some amazing results.

If you are willing to commit to making things happen in your life RIGHT NOW, then decide with me NOW that you are going to do something in the next 24 hours that will take you closer towards your goal!

Maybe it's something you have been putting off, or a new idea. Maybe you need to sit down and re focus your goals? Where are you going?

Please, for yourself, make the decision to make that change TODAY!

I wish you all the success

Robert Snow

Your Coach

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Life/Sports coaching and personal development

Do it Today! Discover How to Make Him Want You Back With These Simple Techniques

Are you harboring any thoughts on wanting to how to make him want you back? Do you desire to win back your ex boyfriend again? If you are having such thoughts, then I am sure you just have a break up with your boyfriend. In fact, having such thoughts are good! Which girl would want to part with her true love? The relationship is hard to come by and both of you should cherish it truly. If you want to know how to make him want you back, the following are some tips and techniques to get ex boyfriend back.

The first most important step that you should do is to avoid chasing him desperately. This means not calling him, messaging him or even stalking him. All these needy and desperate behaviors will only turn him off and make him want to run away further from you. The right technique to apply is to make him want you back and not the other way around. This is the most effective way to win your ex boyfriend back.

Instead of indulging yourself in misery and sadness, start by improving yourself. In this case, it is essentialf or you to be more positive and curb all those negative emotions in you. Yes, you may be feeling loss and hurt after the breakup but you need to remove these emotions in order to get back with your ex boyfriend on a positive note.

One effective way to make you stop thinking about the breakup is to write down all your thoughts and feelings onto a piece of paper. Note down all the good memories you had with him and also the hurts you had experienced in the relationship. In addition, you should also write down everything you have desired to tell him. Once you are done, burn this paper. Yes, you must light a match and burn off this piece of emotions in you. Remember: Do not send this letter to your boyfriend. Simply burn the piece of paper and watch the flame consume the paper. By doing so, you will get some form of relief from the relationship breakup.

After the process of burning the letter, you should try your best to get rid of all negativity from your life. Try to avoid letting your friends and family to talk badly about your ex. Simply move on with your life and show everyone around you that you can handle a break up effectively.

Of course, occasionally you may still think about the relationship and your ex boyfriend. If you do so, remember to think only on what has keep the relationship strong and avoid bringing up any negative feelings. Think about the good times that you had with him. Avoid thinking about issues that caused the breakup. If you really want to know how to make him want you back, you have to remind yourself on the good things about the relationship.

To make him want you back, you should concentrate on your strengths. If your boyfriend has always praised you for being a great cook, then sign up for a cooking class course and excel in it. By excelling in this area, you are showing him that you want to improve yourself and are able to cope with a break up successfully.

Nonetheless, you should not neglect your shortcomings either. If your boyfriend complained about your laziness, then you should start being more diligent in whatever you do. Make an effort to change for the better if you want to know how to make him want you back.

Last but not least, make yourself available to anyone. If someone asks you out on a date, simply go for it. Of course, I do not mean you should go into another relationship so fast. What I mean is that you can just go out with any guy to help you move on with the break up. This is a way for you to learn how to cope with a breakup.

If you follow the tips and techniques above, your ex boyfriend will see the change in you and he will start to fall in love with you once again. By focusing on your strengths and improving yourself, you will have the answer to "how to make him want you back" and you are sure to be able to win your ex boyfriend back again.

Imagine winning your ex boyfriend back? You can definitely do it! Follow Denise's tips on how to make him want you back regardless of how bad the break up is or how bad the relationship is. Denise has been a freelance writer on love relationships for many years and she has come out with a step by step plan on how to get an ex boyfriend back. To find out how Denise managed to help so many people on how to reconcile a relationship, go to => http://www.waystogetbackyourex.com

How Bad Do You Want Change?

I get asked quite frequently, "How have you been able to create such success, and what is your secret." Each and every time, I give the same answer, "A Burning Desire." Notice I didn't say "Luke-Warm" desire. I never matters what type of goals people have, whether long term or short term. It's How bad do they want them. I see too often with associates of mine spending an amazing amount of time and energy setting forth their goals. They put them on their bathroom mirror, coffee pot, or their rear view mirror in their car.

All of this is done to remind them of what they are reaching for and working so hard to attain. I encourage this and recommend it highly for all my new business partners. But, the true desire for anyone to grab hold of any goal is to achieve Internally. Notes and reminders of goals are superficial. A burning desire is to "Internalize" those goals with every waking breath.

You have to want that goal like you want that next breath of fresh air. One can not make goals, and work towards them thinking to themselves, "Boy, I sure hope I am successful." It doesn't work that way. We need to hard wire ourselves internally, to prove to ourselves that we actually need that goal like we need the next breath of fresh air.

A funny thing happens to us when we actually convince ourselves that we Need our goals to survive and not simply Hope that we get them. This is where what I like to call, HR comes in. Some know that as our Human Resources. I like to think of it as our Habitual Repetition. This is what I will cover more of in my next article.

My name is Scott Coletti, a physician, author, and internet entrepreneur. I am married with four beautiful and healthy children and reside in Belleair, Florida. http://www.scottcoletti.com

Ask Yourself - Just How Badly Do You Want It?

If there's one thing I can tell you about my experiences in Iraq, you should always expect the unexpected.

Especially when it comes to eating the food there.

It reminds me of the day I went to the doctor and I found out some bad news.

I found out that something I ate didn't agree to well with my stomach. In fact, the only thing that agreed with me and my stomach was the toilet.

Regardless of how ice cold the seat was, I found myself running back and forth to spend time in the bathroom so I would have plenty of time to think twice about eating the wrong thing again.

But after my small "time-out" I got up, walked back to my room and continued to write. I was forced to take a break yet again during the wee hours of the night, but once "da bizness" was done, it was back to the business of writing.

Why do you ask?

Simple. Because I want to. No one is going to do it for me so if it's gonna be done, yours truly is gonna have to do it.

Success comes at a price, and a brief potty break here and there sure ain't gonna break me.

If there's one thing I've noticed about successful people, regardless of what they try to do, it all boils down to how badly they want something to happen.

I can remember watching Bill Phillips documentary, "Body of Work". It's the true story of his EAS fitness competition where he searched for one fitness spokesperson to represent his ideal vision of bodybuilding.

In the video, a 40-something bartender named Porter Freeman sat down in front of the camera and literally set his mind to winning the competition. Bill Phillips wrote, "If you can't get excited about this contest, go and start an ant farm."

Porter, being the stud he is, said that this particular comment pissed him off so bad, that he started right then and there on winning the contest. He vowed to himself, "I'm gonna make 12 weeks or DIE!" He was so confident of his ability to win the contest the gym owner even gave him a key to the gym so he could work out at night!

That's conviction with a capital "C".

Later on in the video, the ten semi-finalists sat around a table and discussed their number one principle of success. Bill wanted to know what was their motivating force; what kept them going when hundreds of others dropped out of the competition.

Again, Porter was in pure form. His answer was simple. "You gotta want it...you gotta want it more than anything else."

Nuff said.

A mark a successful people have is they will do whatever it takes to succeed. There is no such thing as defeat. Defeat is simply one way it didn't work to successful people. So they discard that one and find what works.

Porter didn't let 40-something years of neglect destroy his spirit, I'm not letting a stomach virus and the poopies stop me, and if you really want to get in shape, nothing's gonna stop you either.

How bad do you want it? Ask yourself that and answer it honestly. While you're thinking about that, I've got to make another run. I don't know what I ate, but I won't be eating it again

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Internet Marketing Success - How Badly Do You Want It?

Some people seem to get it all in life while others plod along. What is the crucial difference? Have you ever asked yourself that question? Well, to me it's a question of how badly do you want it. That will determine your level of success in Internet marketing.

There's an old saying in the famous Art Of War that goes something like this: a person with his backs to the wall is much more dangerous. You should try to be that person. Even though you might be comfortable, make yourself uncomfortable. Get out of the comfort zone and you might find that you really can fly and achieve your dreams.

Get yourself stuck in a corner. Become a wounded animal with nothing to lose. With that mindset, you can achieve anything in life and you will act in the position of being fearless rather than being fearful. Grasp your opportunities, this is your life and there's no time to feel sorry for yourself. Those who feel sorry for themselves get left behind.

So ask yourself: how badly do you want this? Can you see yourself as a successful Internet entrepreneur? If you can't then I am afraid you will never succeed. It all starts in the mind. Tell yourself you will succeed no matter what, you will take daily actions to reach your goals, and you will succeed. Nothing will stop you if you want it badly enough.

So and grab your opportunities today. Believe that your dreams can be turned into a reality if you do the right things.

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How Badly Do You Want to Get Your Ex Back? This is Your Best Plan of Action

If you are experiencing a break up in your life, you've just joined a very large club. Nearly 7 of every 10 relationships will experience a break up and their broken hearts will eventually mend.

But the how-do-I-get-it-all-back-together part is not intuitive.Most of us need help. Let's look at the series of phases you'll most likely experience after the break up of your relationship.

First comes the question of whether or not you've broken up with your true love. Or your situation could be like dear Bella of New Moon, and you'll be too conflicted to know which way to turn. It is very likely that you'll want your ex back. Missing an ex is most often part of the experience of a break up.

There is no reason to go into denial about wanting your ex back. Nearly 85% of all people who experience a break up try to find a way to get their ex back. On the brighter side of the relationship break up issue are the statistics.

It is not a well known bit of information, however, nearly 95% of bad break ups can potentially be mended. Many times it just takes the right strategy to help you get your ex back into your arms.

Second comes the Sherlock Holmes strategy. Namely, focus your thoughts on what happened. Try to uncover all the reasons that you can to figure out what led to your break up. You'll find it very helpful to know all the possible issues that got between you and the love of your life. This could have been a habit or a pattern of behavior or something your ex became inflexible about.

If you can get a hunch or think about the details that happened in your relationship to drive you apart, you'll well on your way to mending your break up.

Third in the Getting My Ex Back strategies is to: Act As Though You Are Confident and Self Sufficient. Many times after a break up, one of the partners will beg and plead for their ex to take them back. It's as though they cannot handle day to day functions without the ex back in their life.

Behaving with confidence, going about with your normal routine, or getting involved with brand new activities, goes a long way toward bringing your ex back. Naturally, we're not looking to plant seeds of suspicion.

Transforming an ex into a jealous ex lover is not the way to win your ex back into your arms. It is always a good idea to speak only complementary things about your ex when you're in conversations with mutual friends. This will make your friends more comfortable and as a bonus, the word will get back to your ex.

The powerful secret of these strategies is your ex will get the message that there is no unstable behavior or hatred to be concerned about. You'll also want to avoid acting too needy or tearful or using any of the negative strategies that can ruin your chances for getting the ex back during the post break up period.

Should your ex start seeing other people, just up the energy of your strategies. What this means is to expand your range of activities. Take up golfing, or Judo, or one of the hot forms of Yoga. Nothing heats up an ex more than to see a hot new body and attitude on an ex partner. It is magic!

Please consider these tips seriously. There is nothing more frustrating than to look back and realize that had you worked just a little harder to get your ex back, you would have been successful. It is more than possible to get your ex back in a few weeks.

It takes a serious attitude and focus and commitment. Your relationship can work, regardless of what led to the break up.

Just take it one step at a time and check your results. Then take another step and stay focused.

Alex Rich PhD, is a personal development and relationship coach with more than 15 years of experience. The videos and tips from his blogs have helped hundreds win their ex back in record time.

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How to Make Her Want You Badly

Is it your dream to make a girl fall for you without having to do much for it and to avoid getting rejected as you try? What if the woman you are interested in looks like the type who would only date celebrity lookalikes and would never glance your way for a conversation, let alone a real date?

Several proven methods exist that could work out for you to make sure that you never get rejected and that any woman will be interested in you. Read on to find out the details...

How To Make Her Want You Badly - Hidden Secrets Of Seduction Need To Know

Method One: First Impressions. If you are scared and shy all the time, you will never succeed when it comes to women. You need to be completely self-confident with your personality and have the ability to approach women and ask them for dates without fearing the thought or action of rejection.

Method Two: Leadership Qualities. Whenever you go up to a woman, you need to have the ability to pitch yourself to her in some way. You need to have the ability to pinpoint which qualities are great about you and perhaps tell her about several special abilities that you happen to have.

Method Three: Hypnosis. Very few men have put this method to use, but all of them have achieved nothing but successful results. The method is known as "fractionation" and has the ability to make women fall for men in less than 15 minutes with the utmost ease.

You need to understand, though, that fractionation is a hidden method, which isn't widely put to use since it is considered a "dark art". Because of this, you need to ensure that you use it carefully since it involves changing female emotional states to suit your personal purposes without taking advantage of women in any way. 

But before you use this tactic, please be warned...

Fractionation (found at http://www.FractionationFormula.com) is probably the most effective seduction tactic ever invented by underground seducers. Given its powers, it could be be downright dangerous in the hands of men with bad intentions.

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How Bad Do You Want Success?

There comes a time in your life when you have to put up or shut up. If you want success, whatever that may mean to you, then you have to stop saying you're going to do something about it and get out there and do it.

For more years than I can count I wanted success, I prayed for success, I filled my mind with success. But I never took action toward success. So naturally, I never saw any success.

It wasn't until I stopped hoping and wishing for success to find me and went out and did whatever it took to find it.

I sacrificed, I gave of myself, I changed everything. It's taken a lot. It's been frustrating. But do you want to know something? I'm seeing success. Because I was willing to do whatever I needed to do to get it. And I shifted my mentality to care about other people's success more than mine. Because if they succeed, I succeed, because it's no longer about me and my success, it's about theirs.

Once I made that shift, the universe opened up to me. It has been the most amazing thing I've ever been a part of.

So what are you doing to be successful? How bad do you want success? Are you totally committed? Are you willing to give everything you have?

I hope so, because your success matters. It matters to you, it matters to me, and it matters to the universe.

Prove it to the universe. Prove it to yourself.

To Your Success! Because Your Success Matters!

David Haines
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4 Key Principles In Achieving Your Dreams: How Bad Do You Want Them?

What does it cost to succeed? Persistence - Motivation - Sacrifice. Our dreams can be personal, professional and recreational. One thing about our dreams, they don't cost a thing. Dreams, talents and gifts are placed in our heart by God. Jeremiah 29:11. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you; says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope."

God desires us to have a good life, a good future. We were created for a purpose to fulfill on this earth. I believe our dreams are given to us to help us achieve higher levels continually in our life and to be a blessing to others. Some may dreams of a better job, new home, new car. Most of all I believe we all dreams to have great successful children and a family God will be happy with.

I can't emphasize enough - how bad do you want it? Are you willing to see your dreams come to past? Are you willing to press through any adversity, trial or temptation that would try to sway you away from your dreams? I hope so! When we dream, we must also remember we will be tested. Oh the times will come to see just what we are made out of. I have heard it described as Dream Thieves. That is why it is important to know:

1) Our dreams will be fulfilled in God's season

2) We can't let people put down our dreams

3) We must protect our dreams

4) We must be careful and mindful of whom we share our dreams with. Once you identify your dreams - Be determined - Be flexible and most of all be encouraged. Remember if it was so easy, everyone would be achieving it. Now I must say it is attainable, because what God has placed in us is surely appointed for a day and time.

Complacency can drive you away from your dreams. Procrastination is another enemy that will drift you off your path of your dreams. Don't let it happen. Once you recognize these two enemies take authority, speak the word of God and pursue! "Luke 10:19 "Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means harm you".

I remember so many times where I just didn't feel like working on my dreams. Just seemed the time wasn't right. Whether I wanted to sleep, eat or just being lazy. I believe if we become too complacent, it could cost us our dreams. We can't afford to let that happen. Remember there is someone somewhere that need what you have.

Believe that you are here for a purpose, a destiny and a path. A path and light for someone else. Not only for your home, your family but for others God allows coming in your path. Whatever you have a passion for, that will bring you great success in your life. Many people are unhappy in their life, for the simple fact that don't have passion or care for what they are doing. Especially their job. All they see is a paycheck and that is all. That is a need, not a passion. There is no fulfillment in that and we shouldn't go through life burdened down, frustrated and disgusted because we aren't willing to challenge our self to what is really in us.

Realize your potential is limitless in God. When you come to know who we are in Christ, there is nothing we can't achieve. When we are setting out for achieving great things in our life, seek help, look for a mentor, a friend that you trust and feel confident in. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Write out your plan and vision, and make it plain. Seeking someone who has achieved and still achieving great things will be a plus in your success. You must look for someone who has a determined mindset and is not selfish in any way in helping you.

Last thing to remember, you must remember when all Hell break lose, you are right at the door of your dream. The enemy would use this time to cause distraction, to break your focus, to lose your vision. Don't fall for it. If you can believe it - you can achieve it.

Keep your focus on what's in your heart, not on what or who is around you.

Iris Shamble has been sharing her writings for several years and has contributed to the “International Library of Poetry”. She has been a devout Christian for 15 years and is a devoted wife to Darryl Shamble, and mother to two lovely daughters. Iris currently works in the Virginia school system, where she has become an expert on the social and cultural pressures facing children everyday. She has spent the last five years gathering and substantiating information and interviews for “A Christian Mother’s Guide”. Iris is also a youth mentor, women’s ministry leader and speaks before woman’s groups. For a full resource of work at home information and inspiration visit: [http://www.achristianmothersguide.com]

How Bad do You Want to Live the Life You Imagined? Are You Still WISHING for a Better Result?

Why is it that some sales professional are more successful than others? Why is it that some sell more in a month than many sales reps sell in their career? What separates the winners from the losers? The answers are simple but not easy.

In my experience working with everything from Fortune 500 companies and their top executives to individuals on social assistance attempting to enter the workforce for the first time, I have found that the difference is as simple as taking complete responsibility for your life. My experience with individuals who are not successful is that they constantly look for the magic pill, the hero on the white horse that rescues them from their dreadful life, while the leaders take complete responsibility for where they are and where they are going. There is no magic pill (sorry); no one is coming to rescue you. You can change jobs every 6 months hoping the 'next' one will be better, but it won't. Your results from your present sales career will 80% of the time follow you, if you are the top sales rep at your current company, you will be the top sales rep at your next company. If you are struggling, frustrated, and unsuccessful where you are you will carry that to where you are going as well. So how do you change your current results? This is where things can get exciting or frustrating depending on whether you think this is a magic pill article or a tool you can use to reach the top of your career. Tools can be helpful ONLY if they are used. A shovel sitting in the garage cannot be blamed for the hole not being dug.

First of all, commit to taking 100% responsibility for your life - no more blaming, no more excuses, it is your life and if you want to achieve superior results it will be up to YOU! Quit whining, get away from the others in your life that bitch, whine and complain about how they are hard done by. 99% of your success will be determined by your relationships. Be very careful with your relationships, they can be toxic or nourishing.

Second - Commit to becoming a life-long learner. Our public education system is set up to give you a minimum education on success principles. You will learn how to survive, but not thrive. No one cares how successful you become, they just care enough so that you do not become a drain on the public assistance trough - that is it plain and simple! If you want to reach the top you must learn from the experts in your field that have achieved the results you are looking for. Imagine a child coming home from his last day in grade 3 saying to you that he is done learning, has learned all he needs to learn. That is ultimately what 99% of the people do when they graduate from high school or college, they quit learning.

Third - Define your outcome. What is it that you are trying to achieve? Be specific, very specific. In my workshops I have heard people say they want more money, that is their ideal outcome. When I walk over and hand them a nickel and tell them they have now achieved their goal, they get upset. Why? Isn't that what they wanted? No, of course not. The problem is that your subconscious mind will set out to achieve the goal or outcome you set, however, it won't do much more than that either. Be very clear and of course WRITE IT DOWN. Now, in my workshops I talk about how important writing down your goals is and show all kind of statistics verifying the results of writing down your goals. Next day guess what happens? We go around the table and ask how many people wrote down their goals the previous night, want to guess how many have? Zero, none, zippo. Again, waiting for the white horse (ain't coming). WRITE DOWN YOUR GOALS.
Fourth - Take action, do something everyday that moves you towards your goal. The key here is to separate the learning component from the actual day to day activities that put money in your pocket. Too often people consider learning an action but it is not. The application of what you have learned is the action. - DO SOMETHING EVERYDAY.

And the final component is... NEVER GIVE UP. Life is tough - for everyone and always will be. It is tough to be a loser and it is tough to be a winner (but a lot more fun to be a winner!). You will face difficulties every step of the way and your commitment to overcoming them will determine your results. Babies don't stop on their quest to walk or talk and neither should you stop trying to achieve your objective.
That in a nutshell is a roadmap to success (or conversely, failure). The choice is YOURS - now what are YOU going to do about it???

Larry Storey is President of Peak Performance Systems in Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada. Larry has presented to a variety of Fortune 500 organizations and his workshops have been said to produce more usable ideas in 1 hour than most workshops produce in a day! With over 10 years in the field of developing human potential Larry knows what it takes to live the life people dream of living. Married to his dream woman and the daddy to a son (Thomas) and a girl (Rae). Larry Storey can be reached at (204) 654-9465 or by emailing him at mail@larrystorey.com

How Badly Do You Want Your Goal?

Are you pursuing a goal or are you following a plan? Friedrich Nietzsche said it pretty plainly. He said "Many are stubborn in pursuit of the path they have chosen, few in pursuit of the goal."

Which one are you? Are you so committed to your plan that you're failing to insist that it produces the results you need? If you are, you might be pursuing the plan rather than the goal.

Periodically you should stop and examine what you're doing. Are you truly pursuing your goal or are you simply, stubbornly pursuing the plan you've set for yourself? There is a big difference. One will help you reach your dreams; the other might not.

When you choose a goal, you also establish a plan that will take you to it. That's a key part of the whole process. But part of the plan you establish should include careful examination of your progress. Things change!

Imagine that you set a goal ten years ago to retire after thirty years. (You must be much younger than I am!) You found a good financial advisor to help you set a solid course to achieve your goal. Your advisor knew tax law, markets, investing, and the other important things required for planning for your retirement.

You got started and you have been faithfully following that plan faithfully. Good for you! In fact, a couple of years ago your advisor moved to a different state, and referred you to a new one. That's good. You want to make sure you have good advice in these trying financial times.

But, about six months after you started working with the new advisor, he wanted you to change your plan a bit. New laws have been passed making some of the investment markets chosen ten years ago much less attractive today. Your new advisor is intent on keeping you on track to your retirement date.

What do you do? If you choose to ignore the new advice because you were committed to following your plan you could be making a big mistake. You had a very knowledgeable advisor who built your plan and you're very disciplined...you always follow through!

What should you do? Are you pursuing your plan or your goal? You have new, updated information indicating that the plan needs to be changed if you want reach your goal. It's time for a good decision!

What was it Nietzsche said again? "Many are stubborn in pursuit of the path they have chosen, few in pursuit of the goal." This is a good reminder that you not only need to execute your plan, you need to keep your plan current and ensure that it takes you successfully to your goal. After all, that's why you set the plan in the first place!

Copyright (c) 2008 Dale Stuemke

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Home Business Tips - How Badly Do You Want Your Own Lucrative Home Business?

Many people are considering 'home biz' opportunities today, either to supplement their income or as a means to overcome the threat to their regular jobs. Fortunately, there are several viable opportunities available today and as a new comer into the arena, you should learn how to ensure home business success. Here are a few tips to help you along the way.

1. Don different caps

As a home biz entrepreneur, you would be called upon to wear different caps. You have or should acquire knowledge on different disciplines of business, such as finance, sales, inventory, marketing etc. But, if you have limitations on this front, no need to despair. There are home business opportunities where you simply perform an assigned task and get paid for that.

2. Your tools

Whether you embark on a home biz or a work at home opportunity, the tools you deploy to achieve the desired goals play a crucial role. Personal computer, fax and a printer are among the essentials to ensure home business success. You should ensure that these are in prime state and technical failure does not contribute to business failure.

3. Rome was not built in a day

Success in your business will also depend on your own confidence levels. Rome was not built in a day. The 'Robert Bruce story' would also be worth remembering in the context of your new home business. Take your time before taking the plunge. Analyze your business plan from all angles. Convince yourself that you can succeed and then jump start your home business.

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